Nine Suggestions for a Mistake-Free Life

When you are in your 30s, you can make mistakes that seem inconsequential but have a major impact on your 50s. Some may call them regrets, but if not for mistakes, I wouldn’t have met my wife and been happily married for thirty years. Here are my nine suggestions for a mistake-free life.  But, I’m sure you will find other mistakes, like not buying Apple stock below $4.00 in 2009.

Nine Suggestions for a Mistake-Free Life

  1. The Company You Work For – You will have many things to consider when you choose a company, but retirement benefits are important.
  2. Your Starting Salary – A salary of $55,000 instead of $50,000 (with 5% increases each year) would earn over $600,000 more in income over a 40-year career.
  3. Your Choice Of A Partner – Let me tell you from personal experience, divorce is expensive. You lose half of your, assets and your half may not be equal to her half. Compatibility about money plays a role as well. If both of you are careless with money, it will be harder than if you tend to be opposites. That goes for respect for risk as well.
  4. When You Have Children – Consider a couple that has children when they are 25 years old. Before they hit their 50s, their kids are past their very expensive college years. These parents, still young themselves, have 15 years to focus on their own retirement savings if they plan to retire at 65. Couples with children when they are 35 years old may not see the light at the end of the “empty nest” tunnel until they are 60—much closer to retirement age.
  5. Consider How You Invest – Management fees can eat you up. “Make sure you weigh the long-term impact of fees when investing; consider choosing low-cost mutual funds or index funds for retirement savings.”
  6. Whether to Rent or Buy a House – This may depend on whether mobility is important. Generally, the nearer to retirement, the more desirable it is to have fixed housing costs. A fixed mortgage at 5% is a risk the banks are taking, not you.
  7. How To Pay Attention To Your Dollars – Track your expenses with any online app. When tracking, you can more easily identify areas for cost savings and put those savings toward your financial goals.
  8. Remember the Power of Compound Interest – If starting at 19 years old you put $2,000 away in an IRA each year for seven years and never put in another dime, you would have more money in your IRA than another man who started putting in $2,000 every year beginning when he was 26. He would have invested $80,000 to your $14,000, and you would have almost $1 million.
  9. Gone are the days of the briefcase – Men today need a way to carry things like a computer, pencils and pens, sharpie pens, medicine, breath mints, chapstick, business cards, passport, change, headphones, iPhone, external hard drive, glasses, sunglasses, notebook, and a Kindle. Why not buy yourself a “murse,” a man’s purse or travel bag? Austin cowboys called them saddle bags.







James has unique experience in selling,  managing ranches, and real estate negotiations. With a passion for wildlife and land management, James’ expertise goes well beyond selling a piece of land.  In addition to his knowledge and experience, James has built the largest in the world ranch community that shares his passion for land education and sustainability.